Research, baby!

Alone time for the ladies.

2009-05-18T22:13:00.000-07:00

People keep asking why I know so much... people keep on expecting that I did it all already. But you guys are all wrong. =]

I know these things because I do. I have gotten positive feedbacks from people that have shown their girlfriend the BJ tutorial. It just inspire me to write more. =]

Yes I secretly wants to be a professional sex counselor when I grow up. But I doubt I will do something like that since I don't want my kids to be in touch with these subjects until they are ready.

so here is something new..

Alone time for the ladies =]

Here is a reference to something I do when I am superrrrrrr horny (which I haven't for the past 5 months) but you might learn something from it =]

I like to sit back on my chair, or laid down on my bed. I like to dress sexy before I do it with heels so it'll feel like a seduction. I like to refine my nails and redo my hair before so I'll feel good while touching myself. I like to start by caressing my thighs and slowly go up and up and up then in a bit and take it out. Teasing myself a bit before the actual touching. Rubbing my clit slowly at first then faster till I cum. Then I'll start sticking my finger in and maybe two depending on how fast I need to cum. I like to do it after I watch porn because thats what I'll be thinking about while doing myself.

Sometimes, I like to use ice cubes. they are my best friends. =] I even spread whip cream on myself once and pick it up with my finger and tasting it before the other stuff.

And I use febreze to cover up the sex smell after I am done.

The dictionary of BJs.

2009-05-16T08:52:00.000-07:00

People often don't know whats the difference. There are many types of spitting and swallowing. There are also many twists to things that girls do to make it more hot. Lets explore some, shall we?

Spitter (1)-n. A spitter is someone that will spit during the blowjob/deep throat process. You will often see this in porno where the girl is spitting or using spit to lube up the dick. Personally, this is really messy and there is really no point in lubing up the dick when your mouth is already in there. Porno shows people doing that so you can see the guy getting suck. Porno won't be so enjoyable if the whole time the dick is in the girl's mouth.

Spitter (2)- n. A spitter is someone that spits out the cum after the guy ejaculate. Some girls do that because they think that is nasty to swallow guys' semen.

Swallower- n. A swallower is someone that swallows the cum.

hmm that's enough for today. =]

BJ tutorial.

2009-05-13T08:58:00.000-07:00

Deep throat If you are not comfortable with the size of the person you are giving it to, take it one bit of a time. Start with the head then slowly gets as much as you can. Most guys like the gagging sound, and most guys would go crazy if you start gagging and dig your nails either to play with their balls or dig nails in the back.

Blow job Start at the head. Lick. Then suck a little. then lick. lick that head like a lollipop. look up at the guy and make your eyes googly (ex. puppy eyes), most guys love it, because it shows that you really want it. ohh and while you are having fun with the head, dont forget other places. so you can either give him a hand job for the rest of the shaft (if the guy's penis is big enough) or you can tickle the balls, or if a guy like it, stick a finger in the ass hole. Gently bite once in a while, not too much and not too hard because it will hurt the guy (no, not pleasurable pain either). Add some deep throat here and there. Some girls like to spit on it to kinda lube it up and stuff, I find that too messy (=P). Let your hair DOWN because guys like to pull on your hair and control your head. oo and BOBBLE. you can do all of the above without moving your head but exaggerate your head movement so it seems that you are doing all you can to pleasure the guy. Some guys get turn on by that. oohh.. and how do you finish a bj? 4 ways. Spit or swallow or facial or switch a position. Spit is spitting everything out after the guy ejaculates, swallow is swallowing the cum. Facial is when you pull your face out, put your hands behind your back. (you can have your mouth open if you want) let the guy jack off and let that cum shoots on your face. MAKE SURE YOUR EYES ARE SHUT!!! BECAUSE IT WILL STING LIKE A BIT**. Switching position depends on if is after a INtercourse or before. if is after you don't do this. If is before, you just switch lol. If you guys hadn't talked about what positions you guys want to try, let the guy do the deciding. let him be the one to maneuver your body.

Extra stuff:1) ICE ICE ICE. omg... either put ice and let it melt in to liquid before putting the penis in your mouth or for extra fun, try to put enough ice in your mouth AND leave space for the cock. It help intensify the pleasure. Same goes for all you pussy eaters. 2) If you know your man likes to eat you out or blow you at the same time, make it available that you can turn your body anytime and start 69ing. For certain guys, seeing their partners turn without their mouth leaving their private parts is a turn on. 3) If you know your guy likes to watch you pleasure yourself, you can also squeeze your own boobs or finger yourself during a session of oral sex.

taken from honour forum written by me